Thoughts about family from Richard, a fall 2011 intern
Family-everybody has at least one family. I’m blessed to have an amazing family, which I love very much. The people I missed the most during our time in Haiti were my family. They were so supportive of me when I decided to step out and go to Haiti for 7 weeks. I also am very blessed to have a great church family.
There’s one more family that I would like to tell you about, my intern family. We started on September 8, 2011 as complete strangers, and on December 7, 2011 none of us wanted to say goodbye to one another. We had bonded in a way that is inexplicable; we spent the last 3 months living together and spent so much time together. Spending 7 weeks in a foreign country can certainly bring a group closer together; it definitely did that for us. I’m the only guy on the team, so I’ve adopted 6 sisters (2 older and 4 younger). I’m a pretty protective older brother, it would be a good idea not to mess with my sisters. Meet our intern family; obviously this is toward the end of our time in Haiti, because we all have a pretty good tan. Not pictured are Papa Matt and Aunt Karen that were back in the States at this point.
If you were to ask anybody on our team the hardest day of our time in Haiti, it would be Friday October 28, 2011. It was about half way through our trip, and there were a lot of things that had to come to the forefront. We had a bit of conflict and some of us were missing home really badly, but for me this day was a turning point, not only in my trip, but in my life. We talked a lot that day about wanting to be a family, wanting to be closer to each other. How much we wanted to be there for each other like a family. We had some conversations that were pretty tough that day, and it turns out most of us were feeling the same thing. We felt as though we were completely alone in this foreign place, which is a terrible feeling to have. Here I had thought it was just me, since I’m the only guy and I had been in a room by myself. At this point I began to realize just how much I was buying into the lie of the devil, and how much easier it was to combat it once I realized where that lie was coming from. It was so comforting to know that I wasn’t alone in the struggle, and come to find out; we are never really alone in our battles.
At the Mission of Hope (where we were staying) there was a team from the Dallas, Tx area. They are a great group of guys that I had a blast playing farkle with and getting to know. The night before they were to leave I was talking to a couple of them. As had happened almost every week, they asked if I was leaving the next day, my answer was that we still had a month left. They asked a few questions about my internship and the organization I was with. I explained that I was an intern with Convoy of Hope; they asked how I got involved with them. I started by saying that I’d been living in Springfield, Missiouri. Then one of them said that Springfield was very close to his hometown, which turns out to be my hometown, Harrison, Arkansas. So I asked him what his name was and it turns out we have the same last name, as soon as he said his name, I knew who he was, my second cousin. We had grown up literally within 2 miles of one another. Our grandfathers were brothers. We had been in the same place at the same time and had no idea that the other one was there. What are the odds? If I were a betting man, I would not bet the farm on that one. We had a good talk and he prayed for me and he flew back to the States the next morning. I really didn’t think much of it for a couple of days; it just seemed that it had been so “random”. I would not realize until later, just how profound this meeting of ours was.
The next Monday we were headed to do our normal routine of going to a school, only on this day there was a miscommunication and we were headed to the wrong school. We needed permission to go to this school and our point person was out of commission. We were sitting on the side of the road waiting for the go-ahead to go into this school. This gave me more time to sit and think about things. At that point I thought about how many people were back home praying for me, my family, my church, my friends, and the entire Convoy of Hope organization. Tears welled up in my eyes as I realized just how many people cared about me and my team, and that I was by no means alone. Without a doubt this was a major turning point for me in my time in Haiti. It was at this point I began to ponder about how random it was that I had met my cousin in Haiti. However, the more that I thought about it, I’m convinced that in fact, there was nothing random about it. God’s fingerprints were all over the entire situation. What are the odds that the very day that our team had talked about wanting to be more of family, that I realize that a cousin of mine at the same place at the same time? I’d seen him at every meal and we’d played several farkle games together. In fact, a couple of our girls commented on how attractive he is, I guess it must run in our family!
I believe it was no accident; we had been in the same place for 6 days. It’s like God was showing me that he was with me all along, that I’m never actually alone. I know it was no accident that I met family in Haiti on the same day that we had discussed becoming more like a family. In fact, not only was it not random, it was orchestrated by the Lord. I love it when circumstances work out in such a way that there is no other explanation other than God. The only response is to praise him, just to be thankful for such a clear reminder that he is always with us. This would be a theme for the rest of my trip, and I hope for the rest of my life. I’m never alone, he’s ALWAYS with me watching after me and keeping my best interest in mind.
On our plane ride to Haiti, I decided to start reading the Old Testament. I had no idea how much this decision would speak to me during my time in Haiti. In the book of Deuteronomy, over and over and over the Lord is giving Joshua assurance that he is with him. In almost every chapter there is a common theme, obey my commands, be strong and courageous, and you will defeat your enemies because I am with you. Your enemies might be stronger, more numerous, have better weapons, better cities, and be better fighters, but you will defeat them because the Lord of Hosts is among you. The book of Joshua starts with the same assurances. “5No man will be able to stand before you all the days of your life. Just as I have been with Moses, I will be with you; I will not fail you or forsake you. 6 Be strong and courageous, for you shall give this people possession of the land which I swore to their fathers to give them” Joshua 1:5-6. This is such an amazing picture for us as well, that all we have to do is be obedient, it might be tough, but life is so much better because he is with us and he’s is on our side.
I’ve been thinking a lot about family lately, and how as Christians we are the children of God. We are a part of a spiritual family, and how before we came to know Christ we were spiritual orphans. We were without a family, and because Christ died for our sins we are able to be adopted. We weren’t born into this family; a price had to be paid so that we could call God our father. So as Christians, it’s our job to act as adoption agents, we need to be pairing spiritual orphans with the Father. The price has already been paid; a great sacrifice was made to bring us all into the family. The only requirement for adoption is that the orphan has to accept the Father’s parenting. He’s such a great parent; He always looks out for them and is never far from them. He loves it when his children follow Him and trust Him with their lives completely. His heart delights in blessing and giving of Himself to His children.
I have such an incredible Heavenly Father. He’s always with me no matter where I go, even on the hardest of days, it’s made easier because the Creator of the Universe cares enough to hear my problems. He wants me to know Him more intimately. He knows me better than I know myself.